One of the most frustrating things about figuring out where adults date is the fact that most guys go about this the wrong way. They think that simply figuring out how adults hook up is enough. I’m telling you right now: figuring out how is just the tip of the iceberg. In fact you’re not really making much progress. It doesn’t really move the needle all that much. When you always focus on how, you’re just focusing on technique. You’re just focusing on what has to happen and what you need to do to make things happen. This gives you a very shallow perception. This gives you only the raw essentials of your success.
You see, anything that you do in life must be approached not just from the technical perspective of how, but also from a perspective of why. If you don’t know why you’re doing something, chances are you will fail. At the very least you would be settling for cents on a dollar. You would be settling for a fraction of the total amount of benefits you could get from that activity. Do you see where I’m coming from? Focus on why people do things and you will figure out certain strategies. You would also figure out certain deep, hidden needs that you can fill.
You see a lot of women that go to adult dating sites have deep, unfulfilled needs. This doesn’t mean that they are crazy. This doesn’t mean they’re emotionally fucked up. They just have different needs. If you are the type of guy that figures out why those needs are there and how you can cater to those needs you will end up fucking a lot more of these women. That’s how the game is played. That’s how you think systematically. Sadly most guys out there who frequent those websites think with their dicks. It’s no surprise then that they end up not having sex. They only end up with their dicks in their hands. You don’t want that to happen to you, right?